Nikki Blonde: One of My Favorite Things

Nikki Blonde

I’ve never blogged before, and I’m not just talking about on WhoaGirls. I’ve never even published any sort of writing online other than one or two dating profiles. (lol)

So I had no idea what I would write about, but then it hit me. I’ll just write about myself and the things I like.

In my first blog here I’m going to cover one of my favorite things I like to do: chat with guys online.
In fact, I love it so much that I find it taking up most of my days. If I’m not on WhoaGirls chatting with someone, then I’m usually thinking about the next time I will be.

The other day I met a guy on here and he took me on a roller-coaster ride of emotions. We talked for a few hours and I ended up giving him my Snapchat. Since then I’ve been sending him pictures every few hours. I think I might be a little obsessed! (lol!)

This isn’t the first time I’ve met someone on here. Almost every week I have a new guy I’m talking to, but I still keep in touch with previous guys I’ve talked to.

I’ll keep you guys updated with more stories of my adventures on WhoaGirls, in addition to other personal blogs about myself.

-Nikki Blonde

How to Meet Girls in Sex Chat Rooms

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Today we’re going over an issue that many men commonly have in sex chat rooms: meeting girls.

We’ll identify exactly what makes this problem so widespread and provide you with 3 important guidelines that will help you meet girls.

So you may be thinking…

“Shouldn’t it be easy to meet girls on a sex chat site if the purpose for people being there is to… sex chat?”

While that is a valid point, it doesn’t take into account the overwhelming ratio of men vs. women who visit these sites.

Gender Overview in Sex Chat Rooms

If you’ve ever been to a sex chat site you’ve probably noticed that the girls there usually get swarmed by tons of guys who want their attention. This isn’t just coincidental. In fact, it’s human nature. Men are proven to be more sex-crazed than women, so it’s not a surprise the majority of the people in sex chat rooms are guys.

Here’s some insider information from our own sex chat rooms:

Even though the majority of our chat rooms on WhoaGirls have girls on webcam, our gender demographics actually show we have a whopping 85% male vs. 15% female visitor ratio!

Want proof? Here’s a screenshot from our analytics:

gender demographics

So according to these numbers, shouldn’t our chat rooms be a sausage-fest?

Not necessarily. This can actually be chalked up to the fact that most girls on our site prefer to get on cam, while most guys prefer to stay off cam when chatting.

Why does this all this matter?

Well, if you haven’t figured it out yet, it means that girls in sex chat rooms have plenty of variety to choose from when picking out who they want to chat with. Unless a girl is talking to more than one guy at once, statistically there will be 7 other guys all lined up to chat.

So now you may be wondering…

“But if there’s so much competition, how am I supposed to meet girls?”

Follow the guidelines below and you’ll find success soon enough.

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Tip #1: The Golden Rule – Be Nice!

Or even easier; just don’t be rude.

This is pretty straight forward, but it’s also the most important tip we can give you. It’s common sense that if you’re nice to people, then you’re more likely to receive a positive response back.

And If you’re thinking, “But nice guys finish last!”No, they don’t.
Not on our chat site at least.

In most cases, if you’re rude to a girl on our site, they will ignore you faster than you can say, “private message me.”

Tip #2: Perseverance

Play the numbers game and don’t be afraid to move on to the next girl if your sex chat isn’t really panning out. They might just not be your type or you might not be theirs – and that’s totally fine.

Additionally, If a girl doesn’t respond to you after messaging her, don’t be put off. They could simply be busy talking to someone else who initiated a conversation before you.

Just wait it out or move onto the next chick.

Eventually, you’ll meet a girl to sex chat with if you keep at it long enough. That’s the important thing to takeaway from this tip.

Tip #3: Find the Right Platform

You should find a good chat platform that sets you up for success before you even start. Try looking for sex chat sites which have a medium to large amount of users that you can interact with. That’ll allow you to utilize tip #2 and play the numbers game.

But finding a good sex chat site can be a difficult endeavor on its own…

So we suggest using a toplist of adult chat rooms like or simply checking out our list of 5 Popular Sex Chat Sites.

You can also take these tips and put them into action in our sex chat rooms right now!

5 Popular Sex Chat Sites & How to Use Them

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Let’s face it. Most sex chat sites on the web are pretty awful.

There’s usually at least one glaring issue on every chat site that sticks out like a sore thumb.

This can totally ruin a user’s experience and force them to constantly be in pursuit of a better alternative.

Here’s a few problems that most sex chat rooms have:

  • Low amount of users online.
  • Clunky or slow chat platform.
  • Confusing to use and navigate.
  • Little to no moderation so rooms are filled with spam.
  • And last, but not least… They’re straight up boring.

Since so many sites have one or more of these issues, we put together a list of 5 popular sex chat sites that do not posses these common problems and effectively stand out from the rest. Additionally, we provide step-by-step guides on how you can use each chat site on our list to get the most out of them.

Let’s start with our own sex chat rooms since you might already be familiar with them.

1. WhoaGirls

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When we made WhoaGirls, we identified the common issues that other sex chat sites have, and we set out to never let them surface in our own chat rooms. So you can rest assured knowing that we’ll always strive towards developing a community that has our visitors best interests in mind.

With that being said…

Here’s how to get the most out of our sex chat rooms:start chatting

When you’re overseeing all the rooms that are currently live, you can take your pick of which one you’d like to enter. We have dozens of live sex broadcasts going on at all times, so feel free to browse.

Here’s a tip:
Hover over the featured image of a room to preview a live webcam feed of the broadcaster.

After selecting a girls chat room to enter, the first thing you’ll probably notice is their live cam stream with a chat room accompanying it. This is where you can start sex chatting exclusively with them and where the real fun begins.

Our process is as simple as that!

We try to make meeting girls on our site as easy as possible for our visitors so they don’t ever have to seek out other sex chat rooms.

But just in case we’re not the right fit for you, here are 4 other popular sex chat sites that may suite you better.

2. Tempocams

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Tempocams is a sex chat roulette site that connects you exclusively with girls. Their roulette mode features your own private chat room where you can watch and chat with girls on cam doing free live sex shows.

Here’s how to get started on their chat platform:

  1. Get on their Girls Roulette.
    When first visiting Tempocams, you’ll find that their layout is pretty straight forward. Click the “Girls Roulette” button to enter and you’ll immediately be placed in a sex chat room with a live girl on cam.
  2. Find the right girl to watch.
    Don’t like who you got connected with? Press the “Next” button to skip to a different girl.
  3. Go ahead and start chatting!
    Once you’ve found who you want to talk to, go ahead and type something into the chat box.
  4. Hop on cam yourself. (Optional)
    Turn on your own webcam so you can talk with your chat partner face-to-face!

Tip: Don’t be afraid to skip to the next person.

There are tons of live girls on their platform, so you have the luxury of skipping through people until you find someone that sparks your interest. After all, that’s kind of the point of a roulette chat site!

Not a fan of random-style chatting?

Well, we have another option below that provides multiple options to help specify the right type of person you want to sex chat with.

3. Flirtlu

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Flirtlu is a free sex chat website that has been rapidly gaining popularity lately. Their app has 2 sections where you can watch either girls or guys live on cam. Additionally, they provide sorting features that let you easily narrow down all the online cams and pinpoint exactly which sex chat rooms you want to enter.

Here’s how to use their website:

  1. Select either the Girls Section or the Guys Section.
    Flirtlu splits up their site into 2 different sections to make it easier for users to browse who they want to chat with. When you’re ready, click either “Watch Girls” or “Watch Guys” to go to the corresponding sections.
  2. Browse the overview of live rooms
    The default overview of each section will display all online chat rooms with a preview image of each broadcaster.
  3. Specify an age range.
    On their navigation you’ll see multiple different age ranges. Select any of them to narrow down your overview of live rooms to only show broadcasters between that age range.
  4. Choose a category.
    If you want to continue customizing, then try using Flirtlu’s category options to narrow down your overview of live cams.
  5. Enter a sex chat room!
    Once you’ve decided which chat room you’d like to enter, go ahead and click “Enter Room” to begin chatting.

If you’re looking for some old-school chat rooms, then the next popular adult chat site on our list could be a good fit for you.

4. Chat-Avenue


Chat-Avenue is a site that takes the traditional approach online chatting. They lump hundreds of users into a few different chat rooms and let nature take its course. While this traditional chat style isn’t necessarily the most effective, it does have a nostalgic feel to it.

Here are our steps to meeting people on Chat-Avenue:

  1. Enter their adult chat section.
    This specific chat room has the most amount of people in it, and everyone there is looking to sex chat with others.
  2. Type in a nickname.
    Try coming up with a creative one! However, using your first name is okay too. Just make sure you don’t include your last name in order to stay anonymous.
  3. Wait for the room to load.
    This may take a bit due to their large amount of users online.
  4. Navigate to the userlist.
    The main chat area is full of spam. You’re going to want to ignore it because it’s practically useless if you’re looking for someone to talk to.
  5. Browse who’s online.
    The goal is to find someone you want to initiate a conversation with. Try looking for first names or users who have Age/Sex/Location in their nickname.
  6. Private message someone.
    Clicking on user’s nickname will initiate a 1-on-1 chat where you can talk in private.

Here’s a tip:

Try messaging a high volume of different people on Chat-Avenue. Increasing the amount of people you message will bring you the most success with meeting people on their site.

In case Chat-Avenue’s old school style isn’t for you, we have one more popular chat site on our list you might like.

5. Omegle


Omegle is another popular alternative you can use to sex chat online. They are a roulette chat site which randomly connects you with one person in your own private room. Their custom chatroulette-style platform can be used to meet new people at a fast rate.

Here’s how to get the most out of using them as a sex chat site:

  1. Put “Sex” in your common interests box.
    Using Omegle’s common interests feature will connect you exclusively to people who want to talk about the exact same topic. Sex is an interest that thousands of people on the site enter as one of their common interests. So naturally, you’ll have a large pool of people to begin connecting to.
  2. Be ready to say, “Hi” after connecting.
    Many of Omegle’s users connect to dozens (if not hundreds) of people in one sitting. If you don’t say anything immediately after getting paired with someone, then you’re likely going to end up getting skipped.
  3. Be yourself!
    One of the most important things to get the most out of their site is to simply be yourself when talking to people. The entire point of a roulette chat site is to get to know a bunch of different individuals, and there’s probably a lot of people on there that would love sex chatting with you.

BubbleClips: Live Sex Section (Bonus site)

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We felt the need to add BubbleClips into our list as a bonus site because of their increasingly popular live sex cams. We’ve talked about this website before in our list of Top 3 Sites to Watch Free Sex Videos because the main appeal of their platform is watching adult videos, but they also have a popular section of their site to watch sex cams.

Here’s how to use the cams section of their website:

  1. Navigate to their live sex section.
    You can do this by clicking the “Live Sex” link in the navigation bar at the top of their website.
  2. Browse their overview of webcams.
    Go ahead and browse the preview images of cams, and take note of the age & categories that broadcasters have listed.
  3. Choose a room and start chatting!
    Once you’ve decided on whose webcam you want to watch, click to enter their sex chat room and start watching! Feel free to talk in the chat and initiate a conversation, or click on their profile to learn more about the broadcaster before saying hello.

Do you know of a popular sex chat site that we didn’t include on our list? Let us know in the comments.

Kinky Queen: Last Night

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Last night I was a bit late going live on WhoaGirls. Prior to streaming, I had a few friends over, and they took forever getting out the door. So I apologize that I couldn’t quite make it on time! I didn’t want to kick them out to say I had to do a live sex show because it’s a dirty little secret that I’m keeping.

You guys will forgive me, right?

When I finally got online I told everyone about the fun I’d been having right before going live. After that, I decided to show off a little extra sexiness for free in my public chat room to make up for being late. Maybe tomorrow night I’ll do a couple more sneak peeks! You know, show off some of those kinky curves!

New Pictures for Fans

On another note, I’ve got a bunch of new pictures being uploaded to my Fan Club. I only have a few minutes right now so they’re not going to be on this blog post, but they will be on my chat profile in a few hours if you want to check them out later.

-Kinky Queen

Sasha Pinnk: My Coffee Date

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It was a cool spring morning when you called me on my cell phone to ask me out to coffee. I was surprised to hear from you because I didn’t think you were interested at all when we ran into each-other the other day. I obliged and said, “Of course! I’d love to go out to coffee with you.”

Later that day when you came to pick me up I made sure I was looking amazing for you. I was wearing my sexy white sweater with yoga pants. I made sure to get your reaction when you pulled up. I could tell you liked my outfit a lot.

After we had coffee, I loved the way you grabbed my hand as you walked me to the car. I was caught off-guard when you grabbed me by my hips and kissed me, but I enjoyed it nonetheless.

I can’t wait for the next time I talk to him. Right now I’m sitting by my phone hoping he’ll text me!

-Sasha Pinnk

Amethyst Rocks: Rain, Hot Chocolate, and Camming

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Today’s weather has been crazy! It was thunder-storming (it never rains here!) and I curled up next to my fireplace with some hot chocolate and my laptop. I got on WhoaGirls to see who would come join me in my sex chat room and before you know it half my clothes were off.

Thanks for joining me today guys. I love meeting new people in my room. I’m hoping some of you become regulars!

-Amethyst Rocks

Summer Wren: It’s Raffle Month!

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Hello to my Fan Club and Followers! This blog post is a shout-out to you guys.

I want to say thank you because you have all been extremely supportive and empowering to me over the past week. I seriously appreciate every single tip you guys give me during my shows.

Let me remind you what I’m going to be doing for my Fan Club. First, I’m going to start holding raffles in my sex chat room during the entire month of October. Every single raffle will give you a chance to win a lifetime subscription to my Fan Club and a custom video made especially for you.

On October 31st during my Halloween party I’ll be choosing 3 names who won raffles throughout the month to win a grand prize! You can earn entries to my raffles by simply tipping me in my sex chat room. Different tip amounts give different amounts of entries. You’ll be able to see the amounts posted in my room.

Thanks again guys! I’d be nothing without my fans and followers. #TeamSummer

-Summer Wren

Harlowe West: I Woke Up Frisky

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I can’t believe I’m about to write this, but I woke up very frisky today. I had my morning coffee (caramel macchiato, of course) and I immediately logged into WhoaGirls to get on cam.

I was in the mood for someone to watch me. When people watch my live sex shows it makes me feel empowered. I love the way my viewers tell me what they want to see, and I’m always obliged to do whatever my room wants.

Come see me when I’m online tomorrow. I’ll probably hop on WhoaGirls right when I get up again.

-Harlowe West

Beverly Foxy: Thinking About Role-Playing

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I’m in a pretty weird state of mind today. I’ve been thinking about how I like to role-play, and I imagine myself getting dressed up as a school girl. Can you imagine what that would look like?

I need a teacher to give me detention, so that way I would have to stay after school like the bad girl I am.

Are there any teachers out there that could punish me?

-Beverly Foxy

Katie Parks: My Second Day on Webcam

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Today was my second day on WhoaGirls. I was a bit late today because my computer needed to do a few updates. I thought it would automatically update while I was a asleep. Needless to say, I was wrong. Sorry about that guys!

On another note, my second live sex show was super successful. My chat room gained tons of new followers, and I believe my followers get immediately updated via email when my room goes live.

I’m excited to see if my audience will continue to grow at this rate. The ratio at which I’m gaining follows will probably drop off after about a week, but that’s not going to stop me.

-Katie Parks